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Usually, I recommend SMART requests: requests that are specific, measurable, actionable, realistic and time-bound. But should a leader’s requests always be realistic? According to Kim Krisco, a leader accelerates change with unreasonable requests:
The primary speech act that creates action and increases velocity is the request. The more requests, the more action and change. The more unreasonable the requests, the greater the change. Indeed, you might say that the function of a leader is to make unreasonable requests.
An unreasonable request is a big ask. When should leaders make the big ask?
Bottom line: I believe you should use the big ask rarely, and well.
A big ask is a stretch for the other party. Make sure you have the creditability to make it stick. If you make the big ask too often, you will undermine your credibility as a leader and your future requests will have less impact. You must prove that signing up for your big ask is a good idea – your request will pay off for the organization and for the other person. A big ask, if accepted by the other party and mutually beneficial when fulfilled, can add to your creditability. If the check is accepted, and it cashes, you get another blank check.
You must be especially well prepared for the big ask. The big ask should be given only when you are at a peak level of leadership presence – passion and purpose, emotions, body, relationships all need to be in congruence with the big ask.
The big ask is a declaration which can create a bold, new future. In 1961, John Kennedy declared “I believe that this nation should commit itself to achieving the goal, before this decade is out, of landing a man on the moon and returning him safely to the earth.” Most requests should be realistic. But realistic requests would not have gotten Neil Armstrong to the moon in 1969. The big ask should be used rarely, and well.
Leaders should be able to make the big ask. They should also encourage risk taking by supporting the big asks of others. Soon after I started at IBM, my manager said to me “Allen, you get one blank check. If I don’t agree and you insist, I will back you. But only once. If that check cashes, I will give you another blank check.” In effect, he advanced decision making credibility to me, despite my lack of experience. He encouraged me to make the big ask, but to make it rarely and well.
Do you insist that people prove their credibility before you will take a risk on their decision making? Try advancing some decision credit instead. It can be scary to give up control, so you can start with just one blank check. See what happens when you back someone’s big ask. The spark of initiative that results may flame into a bonfire of innovation.
CHANGE. That one word evokes more anxiety in employees than any almost any other word uttered by managers. Upon hearing the word “change”, many workers immediately start to grumble and some even plot to thwart the change process. They may intentionally drag their feet or even sabotage the organization’s change efforts. Why does change elicit such strong negative emotions, and why do those emotions often result in negative behavior?
The psychologist William James said we experience emotions when important events occur that could harm us. For example, organizational change could harm employees who are not adequately prepared to change. He said emotions have three components: physiological arousal, behavioral expression, and an experiential state (i.e. fear or happiness). Put simply, change triggers our survival instinct and we respond in these three ways. Our fight or flight response is activated, we experience fear, and we behave in a manner to minimize the threat.
Interestingly, we often do our best work – we are most innovative, strongest, agile, etc. – when we experience a level of arousal associated with fear. We have the opportunity to thrive when we experience emotion-causing events such as change. You, as a manager, have to seize that opportunity and show your employees that they can thrive as a result of change.
To lead your employees through change I recommend these steps:
1. ARTICULATE why change is important. One stumbling block to keeping employees engaged in the midst of change is unclear rules or nonexistent plans. Focus on providing a clear path for the execution of change. Clearly state the personal benefits of change.
2. Drive employee OWNERSHIP of the change. Employees who own change make change part of their identity. We are happiest and most productive when doing the very things that we are.
3. Give your employees more CONTROL. Employees who feel that they have some control over how they do their job are less resistant to change and much more resilient when change occurs.
4. Get FEEDBACK from your employees. Seek information from your employees. Your employees will feel responsible for initiating the change which will give them ownership. It’s not your idea to change, it is their idea.
These actions will help your employees see organizational change as an opportunity for their personal growth. When you create ownership and share control in the change process, you allow your employees to see change as a way to improve their own job knowledge and skill set.
Taking these four steps will help your employees see change as something positive. They will have a stake in the change process and they will see change as a challenge to master rather than something to fear.